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title: "From Drugs and Abortions To Focus and Family: Meet Brian Scrone"
description: Brian Scrone went from drug abuse and abortions to clarify, focus, family, and success. Hear how he turned things around on The Sales Podcast.
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 Jun 23, 2017

# From Drugs and Abortions To Focus and Family: Meet Brian Scrone

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## Your reality is in between your ears...so fix it

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## [Commitment Tips](https://thesaleswhisperer.com/daily) you'll learn in [The Sales Podcast](https://www.thesaleswhisperer.com/podcast)...

- Grew up in a loving household in NJ near NYC...but it was a little too fast-paced
- Got into drugs at age 13 and was even a drug dealer
- Despite the trouble he lives with no regrets
- Your challenges in life are either crises or opportunities
- Hit rock bottom at 23 
    - Got a couple of girls pregnant at 21 within six months
    - Both ended in abortion
    - Sent him into a deep depression for a couple of years
    - Sought help
    - Surrounded himself with loving people who had been around the block
    - Now he's careful with those that are around him
- Keith Cunningham in Austin presented the 5Fs to Brian 20 years ago...but it didn't sink in
- Multi-millionaires before 30...and bankrupt by 32 after the 2008 real estate collapse 
    - Was living beyond his means
    - Was not mature enough to handle the growth and income
    - His wife stuck with him through it all
- Moved west when he hit rock bottom ("You can't fall off the floor") 
    - Was in Arizona then California
    - Was shoveling horse manure and teaching and couldn't pay his rent with his business partner
    - They researched industries and came to the conclusion that real estate was the way to make money
    - Got his money from Family, Friends, or Fools
    - His dad had some trust and unconditional love to fund some of their early investments
- "You can't do a good deal with a bad guy"
- How to succeed without hitting rock bottom
- How to enjoy life
- You get what you focus on
- We all live in our own realities...that are between our ears
- This is a process, not an event

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- Visit Brian Scrone's home on the web
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