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title: So Many Encouraging But Not Useful Tips
description: So many goo-roos, so little time to filter out the B.S. Following the wrong advice can confuse you and hurt your growth. Here's what to do.
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# So Many Encouraging But Not Useful Tips

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**"Don't Take Any Wooden Nickels." (So Many Encouraging But Not Useful Tips)**

#### Sales Tips you'll learn in this episode...

- If sayings like this are worth paying attention to: 
    - Carpe diem.
    - Work/life balance.
    - Take time for yourself.
    - Failure is not an option.
    - Don't take "no" for an answer.
    - Knowledge is power.
    - Why do we feel safe under blankets? It's not like a murderer will come in thinking "I'm gonna kill—ahh, rats! They are under a blanket."
    - Just be yourself. (Sometimes the world needs a bigger version than your current you.)
- The importance of considering the source when listening to one's advice. 
    - One "guru's" mantra is "Fat, gay and broke." Does that inspire you? How much doe you have in common with that guru?
    - "Your inspirational quotes have inspired me to unfriend you."
- You'll also hear some of my favorites such as: 
    - Borrow money from pessimists. They don't expect it back.
    - The Early Bird Gets the Worm, but the Second Mouse Gets the Cheese.

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